Idiot. Vernon Kay, who is married to and has two kids with Tess Daly, has been caugh’ rapeh sending filthy texts and private twitter mails to page three girl Rhian Sugden. He pair exchanged numbers after meeting in a nightclub in their home town of Bolton. Rhian tried to flog her story to the Sun, for whom she regulalry gets her baps out, but they decreed that they were ‘too explicit to publish’. Vernon’s people have admitted that he “sent the text messages but they never at any point had a physical sexual relationship.” But would he have if the situation arose? Why did he take her number in the first place? Was this the first time something like this happened? It all begs the question; When is cheating, cheating?

  • Are dirty texts cheating?
  • Is kissing cheating?
  • Is a secret close friendship worse/better than a traditional affair?

And could you/have you gotten over being cheated on? / Or have you ever cheated youself?

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28 comments so far

1.  Charlotte
February 9th, 2010 at 2:12 pm

Cheating is cheating. Dirty texts are cheating, kissing is cheating, in fact i think youre even on dodgy territory if youre in a relationship and texting another guy. I kissed a guy once or twice and he kept up text contact with me for months, it turned out he had a girlfriend. He probably thought he was this great guy as he never took it further than the texting. I think its a question of morals, as opposed to how far you let it go. Once you do anything along those lines, you’re scum, in my opinion!

2.  Charlotte
February 9th, 2010 at 2:13 pm

When i say ‘he never took it further’ i mean we were together before he met this girl, he kissed me while he was with her, and then kept text contact going while they were in a relationship

3.  ali
February 9th, 2010 at 2:24 pm

Emotional cheating is nearly worse than physical cheating imo…

4.  tom
February 9th, 2010 at 2:26 pm

i think this is true

5.  emmagination
February 9th, 2010 at 2:27 pm

He might not have been physically with her but it sounds like the intent was there and that’s every bit as bad, if not worse.

6.  sandra
February 9th, 2010 at 2:43 pm

hmmmmmmm its was this page 3 lady who sold/leaked the story no doubt to get herself more publicity and i think she did it because she knew it wouldn’t go further then txts and she wouldn’t get the whole scandalous john terry attention because they didn’t sleep together. saying that Men are such simpletons. So predictable. Yet another ‘Good Guy’ showing his true colours, this isn’t the last of it from what i’m hearing!

7.  Megan
February 9th, 2010 at 3:07 pm

I agree with Charlotte, but would also say that emotional cheating is almost worse…

8.  Stylebitch (L)
February 9th, 2010 at 4:46 pm

You know I find super depressing? Look at the girls face (it’s hard when her perfect ass is staring at you, I know). I think she resembles Tess Daly quite a lot facially. Only she’s 23 and doesn’t have kids etc. It makes me want to jump off the roof!!!

9.  Suffy
February 9th, 2010 at 4:58 pm

I don’t know how to judge this one and to be honest, there is a lot that goes into a relationship that only the two in it know about. The problem is not whether he had the intention or not, it’s the fact that something was wrong in the marriage to let him resort to such measures. And yes, the girl is very very much like Tess, but not as pretty. At least we know his type now! This just makes everyone see that even the perfect couldn’t be happier marriages, like his, could have cracks in them.

10.  Polo
February 9th, 2010 at 5:41 pm

Yes I agree she does look like Tess..

I read rumours about these two yonks ago that they had an ‘open’ relationship.. always wondered if they were true.. hmmm maybe they were??

11.  Gina
February 9th, 2010 at 5:47 pm

I think what Vernon did is wrong. why doesnt he send Tess dirty suggestive texts?? to keep his marriage alive? if he comes out with the classic oh Tess was pregnant and neglecting my needs or Tess has the kids and is neglectiing my needs, I will scream because the key to a great relationship is communication with each other and not some blonde fame hungry story selling bint. Why are some people so stupid to risk a family over sexual urges and thoughts. If there is a problem and you feel neglected you MUST tell your other half and try and sort it then if it isnt resolved you move on BEFORE you trick about it saves the heartache and devastation. I feel for any person in this predicament no matter how famous they are. Vernon I liked you but your a dick now

12.  La Betsy
February 9th, 2010 at 7:01 pm

I was so let down when I saw this! He’s always come across as really genuine. I’d say he’ll lose quite a bit of work now! As for the cheating thing, I think I would find an emotional relationship harder to get over than a physical one. That said I don’t think I’d ever forgive a physical one either.

13.  roisin
February 9th, 2010 at 7:11 pm

A cheat is a cheat weither that be physical or emotional! Why be in a relationship if u are not going to be faithful? In this day and age there is no excuse to stay in an unhappy relationship. I have lost all faith in men of late when I see the likes of this. Tess is way hotter than the stripper (oh I mean page 3 girl).

14.  Ellzer
February 9th, 2010 at 7:29 pm

I have to agree with the last two comments, I am so disappointed, I always thought he was a great guy but it just goes to show that guys are idiots (apologies to those few decent ones out there) I had the misfortune to meet a guy once that I kissed and texted for a short while afterwards only to find out that he had a girlfriend. I felt awful when I found out because I’d hate if that happened to me. And what was Vernon thinking? Tess Daly is mega hot…way hotter than that other bimbo!

15.  Stylebitch (B)
February 9th, 2010 at 11:01 pm

Dirty, dirty backstard. How heart breaking is that - regardless of the fact it was ‘only’ texts, i think I would curl up in a ball and cry til I evaporated.

I’m against violence, but I kind of hope she punched him in the gilly goolies. While wearing 17 rings. Made of nails.

16.  Stylebitch (L)
February 9th, 2010 at 11:37 pm

I’m not one of these ‘blame the girl he had the affair with’ types at all, but allow me a monent on behalf of Tess Daly…….your one Rhian has the world’s biggest forehead. There, I feel a bit better.

17.  Charlotte
February 10th, 2010 at 1:14 am

God she does have a huge forehead alright!!

18.  Stylebitch (B)
February 10th, 2010 at 2:13 am

Emma Bunton-ed out of it.

19.  Liz
February 10th, 2010 at 11:13 am

Well I can speak personally on this and, and although it was years ago I can’t forgive or forget. It’s still cheating in my eyes. Though the woman in my case was certainly no page 3 more like the horse on the back page of the sports column.!!!!!!!!

20.  Charlotte
February 10th, 2010 at 11:40 am

Oh my god Liz, that’s awful >:-( I hope you kicked his ass to the curve. What is it with men cheating with worse looking girls than their partners?? Don’t get it.

In other news, I’d be well rid of Vernon if I were Tess, his accent does my head in. Reminds me of Luke from one of the Big Brothers; ‘Nooo Webecca, Nooo.’ ‘Wachel is only after the Hundwed gwand cheque!’

21.  sandra
February 10th, 2010 at 11:47 am

He’s admitted its 5 woman he’s been txting, he gave the sun an interview but i think he just came across worse in it like he’s tryin to justify what he’s done

22.  Gagamaniac
February 18th, 2010 at 5:43 pm

is texting another woman worse than looking at pornography? if they never met up or anything then it was a fantastical, cyber relationship. is there really a large difference?

23.  melon
February 18th, 2010 at 6:30 pm

porn is a no no. they are forging a relationship with the actresses weather they realize it or not. What if they get fixated on it and then have fantasy’s about SexyTeenSlut when he’s with you? No need to mention how unrealistic it and also DEEEEEEEEE-SCUSTIN’! I would bait him if I found him watching porn.

Hmm makes you think though, does stuff like this make it ok to look at your partners phone….WITHOUT them knowing that you’re looking?
*fox, go mad with those chickens*

24.  melon
February 18th, 2010 at 6:32 pm

oh my god just noticed her outfit. most un-practical lifeguard ever.

25.  Stylebitch (L)
February 19th, 2010 at 1:13 am

Maybe I’m a bit thick, but I have no problem whatsoever with porn. Obviously if they’re doing it a lot, or if the nature of the porn is questionable, then it’s an issue. But other than that I think there are far worse things a bloke could be doing!
I have talked to friends who feel the same way and even watch it with their boyfs.

26.  Migilito
February 19th, 2010 at 1:38 am

i’ve no problem with porn either!! it’s very normal!

27.  Amy
February 19th, 2010 at 10:37 am

There is nothing wrong with porn at all, its completely normal! whats not normal is if they become obsessed and would rather watch it instead of doing you!”sexting” is cheating, if he’s not doing it with you then its cheating. Its a sneaky way of cheating to be honest, the intention is there but never acted on so it leaves the gf/wives confused about what to do.

28.  gagamaniac
February 22nd, 2010 at 2:46 am

i dont think i can agree that the intention is there. perhaps the wife doesnt sext and he thinks its thrilling receiving dirty messages. and that is the extent of why he is doing it,

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